get-off the burden

GOD has given man plenty of wealth and resources to fulfill the destiny that man was created for. among of the plenty resources GOD has given to man is companionship and friends, which is basically a complete set of behaviors and personas that mankind should deal with, and for this reason all prophets had their own friends to support them and help them when everybody else left them alone!

For myself my Friends are the only thing that i’ve ever had in my life and i love them just like my family, they are above all the defects that exists and they are more trust-worthy than any other person i would ever know. i deeply love them from the bottom of my heart, we’ve been friends for so long that i stopped counting but it’s been over 10 years now. we’ve shared the best of moments and their worst, we’ve seen the ups and the downs, the joys and pain, some of them went and others came, but my friends kept the same through the whole period.

Reasons that you call them your friends is because, no matter what you say or do, they will just be there for you, either to support you when you are right or advice you when you are wrong and make you get back to your senses.

I have to admit that for my friends i go way beyond across lines and zones and keep pushing for the best, and that has been our eternal conflict, that i have no right being involved into their lives to that degree and they arent  helpless to support and think their own minds. but for me it was and still is a matter of care and fear on them from being so harmed by people that doesnt worth being with them. yess im scrooge about who gets involved with them, just because i care for them, but as i said this has been my eternal problem with my friends, and this is when we started to drift apart.

I’d never forget how many times i’d call or how many times i’d ask, but no matter what i do, it’s not doing any thing and they have to try themselves, no matter i try hard the harder it gets and how strong i try to pull it’s how powerful they drift apart. it’s just bad to see people you care for getting hurt and you cant do anything but be there for them. Yet you cant influence what you want on people no matter how or why you do it.  you just cant. and you must leave them experience life, this is how we all learn.

We kept drifting apart and maybe life is increasing the gap with it’s commitments and it’s troubles to make us more differently than what we used to be.

At this point i just felt that my best friends are not the people i knew for my whole life, and the reason is myself and no one else but myself. i’ve realized the fact couple of months back and i tried to talk to few of them about it, and this is what i admitted doing of getting too much involved into their lives with no respect to whatsoever they desire or wish for.

What saddens me more is that, yesterday i was having so much fun and then i just realized too many things that i was missing in my picture, and i wanted just any of my friends to talk to and i couldnt find anyone to! just no one to talk to and tell them what’s going wrong with me, some1 who could just listen to what you need to say and tell, someone who would understand you, and you find none. it just makes your life a living hell, and no matter what the number of contacts you have on your phone, social media networks are, there’re just no one you can talk to  and speak your mind to! and this just gets us to the point that “Keep your friends as you friends or you’ll end up LONELY” and trust a person who’s just experienced the feeling. its something you dnt ever wanna experience it’s bloody sad, weakens your soul, spirit and motive, kills your imagination and inspiration.

Loneliness might be a usual thing for certain types of people but not to me. i’ve been alone for so long till i knew the taste of being with friends and family and i cherished it ever since. so getting back there is just something that means you’ve failed in doing what you were supposed to do.

One falls just to Stand up again and re-start all over again. but this time ….. i need help from my what i call friends, im not sure if they do call me so also or not! it’s just pretty confusing.

no matter what happens they will remain my friends, and will live life as i am theirs too! otherwise it would be just useless living this life without companionship that GOD has created! and no matter how strong you are you just cant live alone and away from people, it’s just against nature, and nature wont allow you be part of it if you do! and here is just an excellent example set to be a role-model to all others around.

What is more sad is that i’ve lost a friend and DAMN we were too good to be true, we just knew what each other wanted and when, we could talk for so long and yet we are still listening and enjoying the conversation, no matter why it happened, the fact is “WE ARE NEVER GOING TO BE LIKE BEFORE” and this just kills me a little too much more inside knowing the fact, there will always be something wrong, something weird about, and this was the reason i was too hesitant in the first place, and now it came back to haunt me down for everything i have! it just kills something inside more and more by the time! i dunno what could be a route to salvation from such a mess, but i’d do anything for this happen and do even more just to be as we used to be! but the fact is pretty know is obvious and this will never happen, tried so hard but its not working. and for this Im deeply sorry

i dunno this is pathetic or foolish, but this what all i am now.

For all the things i’ve ever made, please forgive me my old friends!

You know what, i know that my friends dont even read my blog, and know nothing about it, and even if i shared this with them as an article i’ve read somewhere, they wouldnt know i wrote it nor would they know whom im talking about! do u see?! do you see how sad it is? you see how bad the situation is? no matter how you are close to me, im sure you wouldnt be 90% right about anything im writting in here, even though it’s plain, clear, simple and out loud… .and this is the ultimate problem or the Mother of all problems.

Now you’ve read so much negative energy, please go drop them off somewhere, the people i wrote it for arent reading it anyways

 

Just A Thought

Well, I dunno I just dont!!

I’ve been doing the best I can and still I’m not able to achieve what I want!
No matter what or how I keep trying it just seems I’m failing!

Well this is my second exam for this course and I thought I did great while i sucked Ass as shit!

Now no matter what I do, I’ll pass this course with a D or D- ” if I ever pass it ” and that’s a BIG IF!

I’m just being driven crazy, and the bad thing is all 60% are on exams so the whole course evaluation is based on exams and quizzes no other things, I’m not blaming the course, but I’m merely remarking that I dnt do well on 45mins exams that has to design a lot of things and make sure they are perfectly correct!

I’m not blaming I’m just trying to think howto overcome the issue so that I can pass!

Moreover I have an exam in three days on three new chapters. I think I’ll take a vacation and let’s see if this time I do good!

 

Wt I’ve been Busy Doing?

Well from the title you can imagine the state, yess i’ve been busy. but thankfully i’ve been busy doing something good and something that worth talking about after all – maybe just for me it’s good, but still im gonna talk about it -

Too many events that happened lately, with some as good as Christmas spirit and some as hard as you could imagine. Well im okay with both actually, the point for me is “one cant feel joy, unless one feels sadness”, so good and bad should co-exist in life so that one could actually feel life.

The Events

Opinions:  every person has an opinion about something, it shouldnt be the same as others, or diversity wouldnt have been present and people would have ended up being boring lousy copies of each other.

The most important thing about opinions is that they only concern the person with that opinion and whether he states it out loud or keep it inside him, it’s still his opinion. Of-course cursing someone directly is not considered as an opinion but pure, blunt ignorance and disrespect and shows the immaturity of the speaker. However on the other hand criticizing what a person has to say or do, doesnt mean you curse them directly but u can merely ping point what they are doing generally and curse it as much as you want, if you dont mention them directly then you are in the safe side and if they take it personally, then they know they are doing such and so, while still doing it – and by now they deserve the cursing of-course -

Why im saying this? well i’ve delved into a debate for so many long hours with so many different people about what “I TWEET” on “MY Twitter Timeline and Account” those debates were “thought” to be pointing to some miserable life’d sick person who thought i was talking about them in which i was “hurtful, immature, selfish, arrogant, stupid, etc…” yeah the list keeps going and going. The fact here is i never mentioned them nor their names, i barely mentioned their attitudes and behaviors; mentioning only that and just that drove them crazy and they got ballistics on me for it. Well in my own defense “i didnt direct any talking to anyone, and if you feel you are doing such things, then now u know my concern and opinion about them, and you dnt have the slightest right to attack me for it !!! given that you have plenty of ways to not read them including UN-FOLLOW feature!!!!!!!” so for GOD’s sake please please please, just dont talk about it!!!!!

To Be Continued Later cause i gotta get home =D, but i will continue it isA =D

 

Achievements

Well it’s been a while since i wrote anything around here. Im sorry guys but blogging takes too much time and effort and im not a big fan of writing in the first place .

However for some unfortunate events that recently happened to me and for more amazingly good events that did, i decided to write a post regarding what i’ve finished or achieved so far this year compared to what i have planned.

Original Plan: 

1.  Start my MSc Program at the American University in Cairo ——> Done Starting Sunday
2.  Lose Weight i’ve Put during my Mistaken Period of time ———-> Done and im back to normal again =D 68KGs Wooot Wooot
3. Fix Days for Photo shooting ———————-> Not done as fixed, but have been busy shooting with my D90
4. Gym and Sports ———–> Been Constant before Ramadan, but should return back on Campus twiced a Week isA
5. Family and Friends ————> On Track
6. Play the Violin ——–> No Help Found !! =(

Current Situation:

1. Work Work Work
2. Friends, Family and Friends
3. Travel Travel Travel
4. Photo shoot any event for friends or family or even anything flickr has been busy with me lately
5. MSc Started
6. a bit of Sports (Running, Swimming and Gym)

So Im happy that im on track with what i want, but sad that there are somethings that i still cant find time for. however one cant get all his/her desires at once.

 

Ireland Trip

This week has been a great week for me, I’ve been to Dublin Ireland on a business trip, and trust me I wasn’t so pleasant that um going there at first. Knowing that I’m going where the farmers of UK are living, hating the English people a lady made me sick of the idea.

However, after talking to someone who’s actually been there and lived for a while to know about Dublin, I started to change my mindset a bit and accept the fact that I might get some fun over there.

It starts on the 1st of May 2011, where my friend and I left the Cairo airport on LuftHansa flight towards Frankfurt airport for a connecting flight the to Dublin.

Having mtarted from Cairo I have to say what happened there , well to put it simple and easy, I forgot my passport inside the scanner to get m parents a copy of it for emergencies – have always hated last minute changes and requests- also the flight was scheduled for 15:45 and the airport said it’s 14:45 for daylight saving cancellation thing.

Arriving at the airport – without my passport and I dunno about it yet – and trying to pass the filtering queue and the police officer asked me about my passport and air tickets. I got the air tickets out and remembered that I forgot about my passport own the scanner, called my dad and waited for extra 35 mins till he got back to me with my passport, then I passed to check-in the flight and have the boarding pass. That went really smooth and easy, next stop Passport Control.

Arriving at the passport control, my friend gets done very quickly and the woman police officer asks me for my military permission to leave the country for a while, and I had it with me, so she commented

She: ” 3ayex Tehrab w teseeb el balad, 3ayez tetfash”
Me: ” la2 aho el tasree7 khodeeh”
Me: “2ahraba Leah Ana aslan khadamt khakas “

Then she took the permission and stamped my passport and boarding pass.

Then we went to the flight gate and we found the complete fun there, the calling system of the airport is saying ” last call for flight number 853 leaving to Frankfurt, please be directed to the gates immediately”, well here’s the thing, I’m at the gate and it’s not yet opened nor the staff is here xD, so. It’s something wrong happening, we asked and they said that the gates are going to open on 3:45 on the original flight time not the airport’s time.

we took the flight and it was a painful 4:20 hours flight, trust me when I tell you that it hurts to be sitting in the economy class for that long :s. However wt was worse is having 4 kids around you on a continous nagging and kicking ur seat or messing around you with juice and tea, well that’s nasty.

I’m trying to be optimistic and I an, cause after this flight we arrived at Frankfurt airport and. It is a great airport, we wLked for like 10 mins to reach the connection gate but it was a pleasant walk through the shops.

We went to the gates and made. Sure that the boarding passes we have are good to go, and they were. We then. Decided to eat the hägen dasz ice cream, and we did. It was a mouth watering experience.

We then took our next flight to Dublin Ireland and that was supposed to be a 1:20 hours flight and it took an extra hour, dunno the reason why. However the view of the cities we passed over at night was a pleasant view and good looking, they looked like colonies or tribes that Are in the desert, each bog city is glowing.

2:25 hours later we Arrived at Dublin airport exhausted and needy to sleep after this 8 hours trip, on arrival and at the passport control, well do u remember those kids from the Cairo-Frankfurt flight, seems out they were heading to Dublin too, and they are libyans and with their parents. They were the first people on the passport control, and it was like 30 mins investigation with them for the reason they should accept letting them enter the country , however they passed finally and we entered Dublin.

Ia got my phone ringing a number from Dublin landline and it was the taxi the hotel reserved for us on arrival, and said he’ll be waiting for us outside next to the information desk. We took our bags and went out to the information desk, we couldnt find him, so we waited for 10 mins then called the number back – I didn’t know it was a landline yet – and no answer was it. So we were called by the taxi company and we tried to make it clear that we are at the airport infront of the information desk they told us about. 10 mins later with no show up, I called the hotel to make sure they call the taxi company, 10 mins later e took a taxi from the street and went to the hotel. I called the hotel on my way and said we dnt want the taxi service anymore and we took a different taxi now, we are on our way.

Arriving at the hotel at night with this much of exhaustion, demanded a good sleep, and we did.

8:00AM in the morning I woke up and woke u my friend, took breakfast and decided to have a look around in Dublin and see what’s around, since we already know there’s a park near, we decided we to have a look at it.

The park is called “Herbert’s Park” and it is amazing at a first and last glance, it’s green as in real green, it’s big with a pond, birds, pigeons and ducks. Of course I had my camera on me, and took a couple of pix, suddenly I found a swan swimming in the pond, like a princess and that amazed me, I haven’t seen a swan for ages.

After spening an hour or so in the park, taking some amazing pictures there, we went for a walk to city center or downtown. Well that’s a new thing to know that Dublin has two city centers the first is by Grafton St. And Greens Park, the other is about O’Connels St.

We went to Grafton street and for our luck it was Bank Holiday so people were in the streets having so much fun, and off course they were drinking early in the morning.

It seemed like a live And nice place, we had a walk till the end of the street and I wasn’t impressed by the brands, but they had couple of good shops around. One designer house just shocked me. That was “CoCo Channel” it was there in a side street off grafton road.

After walking around for the day we decided we should have a tour around and see, having our iPads along we decided that connectivity is a must if we want to find our way around and make use of the technology in hand. We went to Meteor and got 2GB for 7days for only 8Euros – That’s Cheap- and we launched maps and watched where to go. We found out the biggest park ever in a city that’s Pheonix Park and it’s about 12KM from our hotel. Drilled down more and got a tram station and we took it to there.

We’ve been lucky that we walked a long the park, cause we’ve seen some wonderful scenes. And we noticed that people do run around the park from age 3 till 70+, they run, walk, wander around. They just keep their minds and blood running clean.

To Be Continued …….

 

Starting The New Version!

Well, i’ve been into some thoughts lately and i’ve decided couple of things to Achieve isA during this year, not Resolutions but things i want to achieve, in terms of things

1) TOEFL Examination and Score High (Feb ~ March) — Reserved on 02/04/2011– Scored 100

2) Start the Msc at the AUC during the April isA — joining in fall 2011– September class

3) Fix Saturday Mornings for Photo shooting Wherever the place is — was Fridays for SCCI sessions now um traveling

4) Fix Saturday Evenings for Squash Playing with Friends- Gym with Shimi

5) Find a Day to play my Violin in

Well those are definitely not Resolutions because there’s none of them to Achieve it’s more of Planning the Schedule of mine, rather than achieving anything

 

Things only if Women/Men knew about Men/Women [TAKE - II]

Hmm, I’ve introduced my point of view regarding Men being Practical and Rational. I guess it was descriptive enough to know how Men feel regarding those things.

well let’s continue the story with the rest of things.

[3] Men are really easily annoyed

Well, this is not new but a lot of people let it slip between their fingers, or doesnt cross their minds much neither. Men are easily annoyed if there’s nagging or there’re things that are not going as they expected in the first place. this not only makes Men annoyed, but also irritated to some extend that they’d be really short tempered, even though this occurs it’s really temporary, might not last for a couple of hours or days, forexample if we’re talking about a couple going out with some friends related to the Man’s  Spouse, and they might be having fun and everything, but there’s this particular person/action/event that disrupts the clear waters and minds in Men, so Men gets annoyed, but what happens when this person/action/event gets gone/passed, the cheers gets once back on our cheeks from ear to ear. it’s just because we are practical and rational we want things to go as we expected nothing more, things going differently would annoy us.

[4] Men Likes Women who shows interest in what they do

It’s a well known fact about Women that they get really interest and likes Men who shows interest in their work or what they do in general. But What Men do and work really matters to them too! you know!!, however men would like to talk about what they do cause it gives them a feeling they are actually doing something towards the better-ness of which ever they are doing. Let’s take forexample myself, am a Computer Technology Freak, i just fall in love with Technology where ever it is, and whichever it is. Normally if i found something new, i get curious and would like to discuss it with people around me, i guess it makes perfect sense to talk to the only person you’d supposed to find and talk to, but what if this spouse “aint really into what you are doing” ?! you’d be talking and the spouse would be like “Yeah, What ever!” and diverse  the conversation towards something totally different. What should Men Feel about that, it’s pretty bright that if the opposite situation happens Women would get really pissed, and troubled by the idea. however Men have other ways to discharge such event and talk to their friends and colleagues, but what’s the case if Men had an idea that to be discussed with people, wouldn’t Spouses be the perfect person to take the opinion?! This Definitely counts!!! it might change lots of things regarding his idea, only if the Spouse knew her Man right.

[5] Men are Moody just like women, and that might have no reason too!

Yeah You are reading it correctly, Men Are Moody just like women, not as much as Women are and that’s because we dont have Feminine hormones running into us like Women do. But you know, for some reason a guy might: “wake up suddenly, not sleeping well, had a fight on the road with a stupid driver, traffic jam, loud noises to wake up on, frustration, no reason at all” and get a bit pissed off, or not in a usual mood, not with someone in person but in general. What usually happens is that the spouse gets curious to know what’s bothering her Man, so she keeps nagging him to know!!! OK this part is what i didnt ever get, if you were to get someone to cool down or take his/her pressure off, is nagging the correct treat?! I Bet you, IT AINT at all. however the problem doesnt stop at this situation, it turns into more despised situation where the Woman gets nervous because she’s not aware of what’s bothering her man and it’s getting on her nerves, so she starts bothering him and pissing him off, so that he could jump off the cliff and tell her what’s bothering him, but it just might be nothing he’s aware of, might be the stupid driver and it pissed him off on the wrong day/time and it will go in matter of maximum a day, if the man wasnt aware of what’s pissing him off! - Curiosity Killed The Cat, Just So You Know Men are The Cats HERE =D -

[6] Men are Not Looking for only one thing with a Woman – Generally-

Sorry but i’ll have to exceed some lines here, if you dont wanna read this point dont, but it’s just going to be that Men dont only want SEX!!!!

Well the past line shows that we are not just jerks who are having a male compass directing us towards women to have sex with them, this is not the case, if we want to have sex as much as we want, believe me there are millions of ways, rather than being in a relationship and it’s waaay much more easier, simpler, cheaper and not that tedious to manage and handle. “Hello There are Hookers every where now, Even in Egypt!!!!!” so if the thought that SEX is our sole reason for being next to a woman, is JUST WRONG, and shouldnt be present that much of thought, let me tell you too that whether or not you watch it in a movie or TV Series, it’s not just about sex! well for Barney Strellson it didnt work like that for sometime now, for anyone and yess this goes for women and men, it’s not just sex that should be getting people together, am saying this because i knew of some friends of mine whom are married, that they just wanna be safe from disease, not sinning, and most of all he can satisfy himself whenever it’s possible! and THIS JUST CREED, SELFISH, STUPID AND WRONG!!!!

well this shouldnt be supporting the title, but it is for me, let’s look into the point differently, how my friend is feeling about his life?! believe me it’s just not even close to good, he gets home late, to avoid trouble, just because she’s not the person he’d be wishing to talk to, they are not in any intellectual/smartness/IQ/interests level as they should be, and this is making their lives a mess/misery to live with, and it came to the point the only thing that they both agree on is “Doing It, is keeping them together, and is burying their troubles, making their lives better”  well its definitely not doing them any better, because it’s not based over loads of things that should be present like : Love, Appreciation, Compassion, Companion, Compromise, Communication, Desire. and you see desire -as in instinct/nature- came at the end, because there’s a huge foundation that should be there before sex gets to be the solution. Well, it’s a known fact that it does help decrease troubles/tension/arguments but this is only when the couple are having the base foundation of Communication, Compromise, Companion, Compassion, Love, Appreciation, Safety, Unselfishness – AKA Selfishness-less -, Understanding, Respect, etc… the list can go for a while without even being near to this instinct.

[7] Men really like to have fun and enjoy time

Well this is also a normal human Instinct, and that every creature on earth knows, Human beings want to spend more time happy and enjoying themselves and enjoying what GOD has created for us, or what we created for ourselves with GOD’s help.

So this leaves us in a point that When Men are happy, dont ruin that for them, just because you are sad, this just troubles them, and makes them really pissed off. and it’s normally, let’s think of an example “You’ve been doing something, that you’ve been waiting for a really long time, and you were enjoying it so much, then comes your spouse with a sad/depressed/crying face, so you certainly are out of mood just now, and concentrated to know the reason, if the reason is pretty much something, it feels ok, but if it’s trivial…..” How would you Feel, Woman or a Man doesnt matter now.

Men can party and have fun 24/7, we are capable of making life a big joke/party/etc.. but we wouldnt if it’s without what we love and believe in, so try to consider our wishes too =D!! and believe me as much as party a person would ever want, a man can make that happen, just if he felt that it’s being enjoyed by those who he cares about.

Remember this is why “Women Like Men Who makes them laugh!!!”

[8] Men would do anything to the woman they admire most, but demands things in return

Men are not selfish as most Women think of them, Men would sacrifice loads of things for their women, Men would really literary do almost Everything for their women, and wouldnt hesitate about it nor give it a second thought, but this comes with returns that men are expecting, pretty not much though. things as simple as “Appreciate that he’s doing things, just for you and for no other reason but you being happy”, “Willingness to repay in any form anytime, even though its not a demand for men”, “Understanding that this might be just against all our will, and we’re still not arguing why we should be doing!”, “Trying not to push too far, by time men would get lost of their original track they wanted for themselves, and you’ll have to pay for those consequences, because you were the reason for this all, we aint blaming you, but you didnt care how far you made us go away from our track, and still demanding more!!!”

This is just sad but it’s true.

[9] Men dont like to be interrogated nor suspected nor be an open book to their spouse

Men are not complex creatures, not compared to women at least. but we are definitely sophisticated than women knows.

Well we Do like to be Mysterious, not understand most of the time, this makes us feel more like in control – and certainly control is a Man’s ideal friend- but unfortunately women tend to ruin this for us by interrogating us and asking loads of questions to clear the Mystery they see, and this is not Funny!!!

Humans dont like the feeling to be suspected of guilt, so dont do this to us, because you heard from the TV/Series/Friend that men are always looking for someone different than you, this is real men. Jerks is a different story! Trust your man and You Own him.

[10] Men dont like NAGGING by any means, not continuously not timely separated.

OHHHHH, i dunno why is it in women to be naggy, zannanneeeen geddan geddan, we JUST HATE THAT! it makes us stubborn not to do whatever you are nagging about, even if it’s for our own benefit. Be Smart, Play it Right!

if a Man doesnt wanna talk about something, leave it, he’ll discuss it later with you, not everthing should be on DEMAND here!!!

[Conclusion and Additions]

Well After all of this, this is Part One of the Series, and am being Challenged to Finish the second part of it, or actually being thought of in-capable. however not the point now.

Conlusion:

Dont take your man for granted, that he’ll be there always for you when you want him, and you are not working on keeping him there!

Dont do those things that drives him insane, and still want to be predictable of how he’ll react on your actions!

Dont Nagg!

Dont Cry While He’s Laughing!

Try to Know Him, His Interests, His Defaults, His Ups and Downs, His Defects, and dont even try to Fix those defects continuously have a limit for what you’re changing you dont know to what extend he might get changed, that you’re not the one for him anymore!

Try to Appreciate whatever he’s trying or doing to do for you! and show him you do!

Try to make him feel different and safe!

Play Games With Him, Men Are Fond of Games!

 

[Finally]

Hope you enjoyed this, and willing to read the next part of it.

 

 

Things only if Women/Men knew about Men/Women [TAKE - I]

it’s been a while since i last wrote something that i’ve given it a lot of thought. it’s just a really different talk than what you expect me to write about. however it’s something i wanna talk about in a matter of just talk, so this is not a rule and it might, no it probably not gonna be there for a long time.

the idea behind this post is pure self experience that i lived and that i found around me, it touches me deeply and might even touch you too.

So the idea is talking about the stuff that if Women Knew about some certain stuff about Men and vice versa, what would have changed ? How would they react on such things ? Is this really present? Would that decrease/increase any or partially the differences between the spouses/couples/friends what so ever?. So this idea is definitely has been discussed a lot from others, and make no mistake that am talking here to be something more a personal experience sharing, not a Doctoral nor professional talk at all.

Having that Said already, let’s start the Post by something

“We Are Different: Women, Men , Children, Men through themselves, Women through themselves, Men with Women, Women with Men”

“Conclusion: There are no set of rules to follow in life, beneath those GOD created and spread to us through prophets and messengers, so Make no Mistake that there’s NO Single Guide to How to Attract Women/Men, there’s no a Single Guide to How To be Professional knowing what Women/Men Want. Certainly there are some common things and needs that every one needs, and this is all what the books – that i really dont actually read at all – is about, and that’s what i think”

Things Only If Women Knew About Men:

Facts:

1) Men are rational

2) Men are Practical

3) Men are really easily annoyed

4) Men Likes Women who shows interest in what they do

5) Men are Moody just like women, and that might have no reason too!

6) Men are Not Looking for only one thing with a Woman

7) Men really like to have fun and enjoy time

8) Men would do anything to the woman they admire most, but demands things in return

9) Men dont like to be interrogated nor suspected nor be an open book to their spouse

10) Men dont like NAGGING by any means, not continuously not timely separated.

So Let’s Talk about each one of those:

[1] Men are rational:

Well we are too rational we would understand things like earth is revolving, the sun is shining, the weather is cold, 1 + 1 = 2, those stuff that most people understand we are capable of understanding loud and clear but here are stuff that we don’t understand pretty much normally. Hmm Let’s see Being late for make up or getting Dressed, Being left without conclusions, Being aside of what’s bothering our Spouse, Being Aware that some “XYZ” action would drive us mad and still find our spouse doing it over and over and over, giving a reply of  ”Sorry we didnt expect you react like this”. Well news blast for Women, It’s not 1+1=2 when it comes to reactions, sorry but if you expect that if you do “X” your man would react and do “Y” this means you’re really lost in somewhere in a nut house, we always tend to extend beyond what you expect, so that you never expect what we are capable of doing, so please for GOD’s sake stop teasing us or playing on that point/rule that you made “Reactions should be Less Than or Equal to Actions” this never happened, and would never happen.

We do understand that Women get late for Makeup and getting dressed for us, they want to glaze us, they want us wonder for hours in their beauty, that they spent hours too to make for our pleasure, this we understand loud and clear. What we dont is “if Women are aware that we are going out by 7:00 and they would finish their stuff in 1:30 hours, Why do they start getting ready by 6:00 ~ 6:30!!!” this is really true, i’ve seen it happen over and over and over, and if we get bothered or gave that face of upset, we’re totally screwed !!!!! really UNFAIR!! and it really bothers every single Male person on Earth!

Being Left without conclusions is something Men really hate, because they keep thinking and sinking, yes i said sinking. Men get submerged into thoughts and they might really get baad thoughts if they were left hanging without any conclusions about a discussion, a thought, a debate, something bothering the spouse/partner. Men tend to “If we start a talk, we either finish it, or not talk about it already” this is who we are really, this doesnt mean that we sometimes tend to “CLOSE THE SUBJECT FOR GOOD” without any conclusions, because the consequences of going through this debate/discussion would be tremendously tediously hectic that might be a catastrophic event for the relationship for us.

Men who really cares for their spouses really want to get the feeling they are part of their daily life, the goods and the bads, they want to know about what’s making them more happy and what makes them upset during their day, no matter what dont and i repeat dont mention the same type of feelings you have “good or bad” which means, you dont keep telling him all the time that you love your work and that there are some people who are amazingly gr88 and helps you all the time, and life is peachy. well we’ll get two things DAMN Jealous and DAMN Bored. Yeah two somehow contradicting facts but it happens. We’d get Jealous from those people you keep talking about and how nice they are to you, and we’d get Bored because there’s nothing new happening to your work and it’s always Peachy. and on the other side we dnt want to keep listening to *itching and *aming the day you joined this work and that your people around you in work sucks or that sort of things, this actually drives us Nuts and makes us more depressed than yourself, moreover sometimes it would make us really angry, it’s a negative energy your sending and it’s directly charging us, without you know it, we are exploding.

[2] Men are Practical

Men are practical that they would drop a lot of things through their lives because it’s a bit trivial or doesnt take their attention the same it does to their spouses, this a bit selfish, but we expect our spouses to either compromise about it, or not expect too much from us towards this. well we dont like Chick Flicks nor Desperate Housewives nor those types of TV Series nor movies, and we dnt like women to keep talking about it. moreover we actually hate when women start imagining that we men would do what’s been in the series or the movie, and why we aint doing the same?! come on this is TV Production the writer wants this best image and everything for the watchers so that they could sell and people would follow! like what happened in this freaking Turkish Series “Noor” OH GOD this really stinks, do you expect this to happen usually and that all men are this “Mohannad” thing. well some news blast for you “HE CHEATS ON HIS WIFE” “HE AINT THAT GOOD PERSON” “ALL HE DOES IS BECAUSE OF GUILT NOT BECAUSE HE’S GOOD, OR WHY DIDNT HE MARRY THE MOTHER OF HIS CHILD AND DID EVERYTHING TO KEEP THAT MARRIAGE” be reasonable – btw i didnt watch this series, but had some feedback from women who did- think of it, like what if we kept talking all the time about “Starwars, Batlle of The Titans, GI-JOE, Tech Talks, Football,etc…” all the time or more worse, what if we kept asking you to do things like some model they saw on TV or in a TV series!!! admit it you’d really get annoyed and it’s nonsense!

[To Be Continued]

 

Amusements

It’s amazing how watching people dance, gets me thrill that i’ve never experienced ever, i dunno if that’s because i love to dance so much and have always wanted to dance, am not talking about special type of dance, i do love Tango, Salsa, Break Dance almost every type of dancing out there.

but watching people really dancing gets me thrilled horribly that sometimes makes me think,” why do i have to be so Geeky and not Dancing?” “What makes me continue working as a SWE with Technology, while i can live the Thrill and Dance?” then i suddenly obnoxiously say to my self “Hey, Dancing can be something in ur life, but it cant be your life, you are not that type of people and you’ll never be” and it’s true though how much i love dancing, i’ll have to let it go by as something to do, but not something to live for.

 

Another thing amazing that i’ve realized is, how i do love to take pictures of people while they are not aware or attentioned – giving me attention since it’s not a word -, and try to capture the really right moment to do so. it just makes me feel like am drawing a picture for someone and i without having to be able to draw, i’ve always failed in drawing and never have been able to draw, – yess that’s why am a Graphics Designer Sucker – but i’ve always loved to look at nice drawings and get more into it.

I love picturing the nature and set my mind free of how the Almighty have created everything that consistent and that beautiful to make everything around you just making sense. yesterday while i was driving on the ring road near JW Marriot i was amazed with this scene, imagine with me the following: “the moon is full, yet a bit yellowish color, really close to earch almost touching the buildings, appearing and glowing from behind a set of trees, yet still behind some mild clouds that are covering just 3/4 of the moon and leaving the top notch of it to steal my heart, soul and mind – yess while driving- and that moment i was drifted away by “How Amazingly GOD have Created everything” and more over “It made me feel like really alive again, and wanting to live more, not as in time but enjoy and make every moment count in my life”.

5 years ago i’ve been enrolled into a friends-club band that plays arabian music, and i mean old legendary amazing music, for “Um Kalthoum, Abd El Halim Hafez, Abd El Wahab” and have always tried to give it some modern feel and gesture – that came later on after we’ve been able to play them correctly first.-. However, i’ve always loved music, it just feels like filling your soul with something different, something really joyful and changes your mood. sometimes i just think that music really changes people’s lives, people’s attitude and people’s behaviors.

I’ve been playing the violin as a member of the band, and let me tell you this, it aint easy to play!, however when i played the violin, it just felt very competitive and yet very joyful am succeeding and improving into this instrument, this piece of wood have made me a calmer person, it gave me strength to think more deeper and look beyond what i’ve already known. just passing the bow over the strings would just make my worst dreams, nightmares, worries, everything disappear and not only leaves my mind blank, but it replaces them with joy, happiness and pure pleasure for the moment. i just really get and feel am not into this world anymore, am somewhere different, somewhere without hatred without fear, without fighting, somewhere pure, above the sea and the ocean, under the sky and between the clouds, the stars are blinking, the moon rays are tangling, dancing with my tunes around me. It really Changed Me, and would Change anyone who would feel just like me.

 

 

Throughout my childhood, i’ve been into technology and computers, thinking “Yess this is the Next Generation of things people are going to use and enjoy, This is where the world would turn, and that’s where i must prove myself in, and that’s what i can get really creative about”, am not a sports type – even though i was in the club league for Squash and being the youngest among all clubs around Egypt- yet didnt think this is where my life would be as a professional sports player.

[To Be Continued]

 

The AUC New Campus – The New Vision The New Opportunity The New LifeStyle

Well today as the last day at military before i receive my Certification of Completion next week, i was invited to attend a meeting at the AUC new Campus with my old Work Folks Tarakeeb, for some work related issues, regarding training to the AUCians Post Media Production.

i’ve been to the AUC before couple of times, and i wrote posts regarding the people there, and the attitude one finds there, from disgusting and shameful to honorable and pride, this time i wanted to make a different review regarding the AUC, even-though am one of the biggest haters to the AUC students, i shall say the following regarding the AUC itself, not the Students.

The New Campus:
Wonderfully Created and Painted, Ordered and Organized, the Smallest of Details before the Biggest are considered and are made with that Modern yet Arabic, Up to Date Design, the various wide spacious areas give your eyes a relief and makes you want to really do something different, it’s a real campus like those we find on TV abroad. The campus contains loads of Green Areas, Water Falls and Fountains, that create sounds that are perfecting the environment for creativity and inner peace. where ever you might look you’d probably be surrounded by either water fountains or a garden space that you can utilize.

The Buildings are all sectioned according to usage, and trust me on this, you need a club car to go all over the place , however the buildings as mentioned are Modern Style yet Arabic (arabisc) styled windows and everything, there’s a complete Building for Lectures and it’s classified into rooms that contains up to 25 ~ 30 persons max according to the policy, all digitally Equipped with Projectors, White Boards and Cork Boards for information.

Getting into a class room gives you a new insight about the Type of Education you might get and benefit from such a place, the environment as said is amazingly beautiful and inspiring, the very low numbered of students per class room gives them the opportunity to ask, communicate, concentrate and even debate without a hassle to get overwhelmed of questions or the conversation, so the Doctors, Professors and off-course the Teacher Assistants would be of great help and support, giving the student a new broad mile to communicate through education not just a lecturer, recipient model.

The Labs are certainly in a different place that are equipped with the latest of up to date models giving the students opportunities to be working with top of the line components and equipment. and the same terms and condition applies of 20 persons.

The New Vision

According to the transfer from multi campuses that are scattered into multiple places, now everything is under the same roof, so you have the GYM, the Dorms, The Lectures Building, Labs, Sections all in the same place – almost- makes life more easier, and makes people more concentrated over what they want to do, let’s say, if i were an AUCian nowadays i would have certainly graduated with atleast 3.8 GPA , and abused the place to the max, Gym, Music, Theatre, Labs, etc…. .

 

[To Be Continued]